Sometimes I cannot believe Facebook. It looks like a high school yearbook! Everybody posts their kids awards, their husband’s promotions, a picture of the perfect peach pie. A post that demands you “like” a picture of Jesus or scroll by and RISK YOUR VERY SOUL.
Sometimes, it’s too much.
To be fair, I’m guilty of this also–posting only the best moments from my life. Only showing the good side. I mean, nobody really wants to know the other stuff, do they? How my laundry looks like it’s been multiplying overnight and my son is mad at me. How I’m so stressed out I’m having trouble getting out of bed. How the holidays make me miss my dad so much I can taste it. How I had a disagreement with my husband, or daughters and it’s like Antarctica around here. That even the penguins are wearing jackets?
Nope. I’m likely not gonna share that on Facebook. First of all, it’s really not anybody’s business. Secondly, people don’t generally go on Facebook or social media because they are thinking,”You know what? I feel like being bummed out!” Or, “I feel like feeling inferior! Yes!”
On my page Nonpartisan Jesus, where I talk about authentic Christianity outside of political spectrums, I received a message from one of my acquaintances:
Maybe Jesus wants us to get off Facebook and follow him.
I’m not gonna lie. That one stung. I replied:
I’m not sure how/if Jesus thinks about Facebook much. However, since so many people use social media, doesn’t it make sense to try to make something positive of it?
On the flip side, I’m sure you might have a friend or two who shares every thought that comes to mind. The posts look something like this:
9:00 Thinking about coffee. #TheBestPartofWakingUp
9:05 Out of creamer. Have to go to the store. #Prayers
9:06 Can’t find a parking spot. Saw my pastor in the parking lot. #blessed
9:07 Walmart’s out of Folgers! AHHHHHH! #Agony
I somehow think this is worse.
Let’s face it–we all do it. We put on our best mask for Facebook. We only show the peanut butter sandwich with the crusts off. Everybody is guilty of this.
So what’s the alternative? How do we allow ourselves to be authentic without giving too much information? How do we share our struggles without seeming like we are looking for pity?How can we use Facebook as a ministry? Is it possible?
Yes. We just have to be present.
For example, my friend Jennifer is the master of this. I’ll post something like:
Oh my gosh. Finals, errands, moving, planning a graduation party–I’m overwhelmed!
I have to admit, I might have seen the same post and kept scrolling. Of course it’s stressful to be moving around final exam times! That could have been better planned! Oh well.
Within seconds, I get a text:
Want to have the party at my house?
And I’m crying, unable to fathom what I’ve done to deserve such a sweet friend who would not only see a problem but propose a solution. A solution that creates work for her.
Jennifer has a servant’s heart. I have been the beneficiary of her heart many times over the years. It’s not easy to see somebody struggling and offer to help. It’s much easier to whine about Folger’s. It’s easy to like the Jesus post and ignore the friend who’s drowning.
Because of Jennifer, my girls had the nerdiest Star Wars Graduation blowout ever. For three hours, we invaded her house, bringing smelly tacos and balloons. For three hours, the girls and their friends walked around in Chewbacca masks, celebrating their achievement.
Because Jennifer and Josh are the best friends ever.
This year, I want to be more present. I want to be more proactive. I want to have a servant’s heart–seeing need and thinking a solution.
Thank you, Jennifer and Josh. Thank you both for being Jesus on Facebook! You guys are the BEST and we love you.
But right now, I have to go. The dryer beeped because my fuzzy socks are ready. #blessed
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